What not to do(basically what you've done):
- Listen το depressing music: Taken for granted you like to listen this music and force your suicidal mood on others, i don't think you need constant reminder of how sad you are.I'm pretty sure you have enough memories to cry yourself to sleep.Also.... just put "single" not "divorced", not "widow", not "eunuch".... and stop posting the songs!!!
- Facebook stalking : You've seen the pictures, you've taken half of them for God sake! Why keep staring?! Sure, you want to know if she is with someone out.. but.. then what? what if the next check-in "home"? you're ready for that? Extra tip:Delete before murder or suicide occurs
- Drinking etc : Vodka will you forget, but the wallet will not, neither will your liver. Not to mention the texts you will regret sending at a Saturday night. But again you're drunk reading this so fuck me! Where are my tequila shots?
- Beg : women just love a to have a man that beg them, I'm sure that when she is out flirting with a confident man she is thinking if you crying to be to stay with her.
- "I'll wait for you cause you're the one for me": Hmmmm, no....
The right things you can do:
- Try new things:Like going to the gym, fatty!! It is a good way to clear your head forget what you had lost and see what you can find now. Try a new language, a martial art something you didn't usually do.
- Change the way you look: Not the most common advice but changing the way you look you leave your past self easier and can create from scratch something different for you.Also looking the same as when you were with her, come on!
- Use you experience on others: Giving advice will make you feel wiser and stop beating you self up with thinking you're a loser.
- Delete her phone and pictures:Even if it ended in good terms seeing yourself together with her will only hold you back, trust me!
- Be a player for a while: If you can do it just for a short time to gain experience.But always show you intentions before doing something, real players do it the right way and don't make a fool of b!tches!
In the way of Yoda "now my son ready you are" go and move on
Ps:Still haven't made it all the way through both lists